Preston is now in the habit of posing the question, "Remember when...?" to me on a regular basis. And he is recalling historical events with impressive accuracy. The first time he did this was about a month ago. He will pause, and squint one eye, and roll his eyes upward, as if he is really pulling from the depths of his brain. And then he will spit out some random memory, dating back as far as last summer. The first time he did it, I totally thought he was making something up, or recalling a dream or something, but he kept providing more and more detail until finally it clicked, and I was like, Oh yeah, I totally know what you are talking about! He starts with a vague description like, "Do you remember...that time at the cottage?" And then adds some more specifics like, "...And Oomp and Gigi were there?" And then, BAM! "And we were in the paddle boat and we picked up lily pads?" He has totally blown my mind with this.
But today was by far the most intriguing memory conversation to date.
I had taken down some of his baby pictures from my desk at work and put them in my bag to bring home. So on the drive home from school I passed him one of the pictures and asked him who it was. "It's me!!"
And then:
P: Mommy, do you remember that time when I was a baby and you gave me a mat?
Me: Ummm....sure, bud. (pause). What mat? (He cannot actually be recalling his play mat thingy, right?)
P: Uh, the mat. You know, the mat.
Me: (ok he's definitely pulling at straws here.) What color was the mat?
P: Green.
Me: (what the...? He can't possibly remember that mat. I will ask detailed questions to clarify that he is making this up.) Do you remember what kind of animal was on the mat? (He will never remember that.)
P: A frog.
Me: (WHAT THE #$%$#???)
P: And it had a pond on it.
Me: (looking at him in the rearview mirror like, are you totally messing with me right now?!?)
I do not, in fact, think he recalls this mat from infancy. That would be preposterous. However, I think it is incredibly impressive that he recalls it in such detail from only seeing it in his baby picture album. Which, he has looked at a handful of times in the past 6 months (but not for at least the past month). There are 3 pictures of him on the green mat, and none of them give a clear picture of the mat (and definitely not the frog OR the pond), and the mat is definitely not the focal point of any of the pictures. AND, in all the times we have looked at the album, he has never commented on those particular pictures, or on the mat. Actually, I don't think he usually even gets to that page, he usually just wants to look at and discuss the pictures from the day he was born. So, needless to say, I am slightly baffled, but at least there is a partially reasonable explanation, right??